Charlotte Collins Reed
Christ Episcopal Church
Even though most of us never knew Helen, we have all been
impacted by her life. While at the time
she would never allow us to tell of her generosity, the truth is that she was
the major donor that made the new slate roof possible in 2008. She was the major contributor to the organ
project in 2003. And in the late 1990’s,
Helen was the one who made the gift that air-conditioned both this building and
Hollenbeck House. When I or anyone else
would thank Helen for her generosity, her response was always the same “To whom
much is given, much is expected.” End of
conversation.
One interesting fact about Helen’s generosity was that
neither I nor my predecessors ever asked her for anything. She told Bob and Ruth Partlow, the rectors in
the 1990’s, that the church needed to be air conditioned and she wanted to make
that happen. In 2003, she called me to
come visit her. She knew we were going
to have some work done on the organ and she wanted that work done right and as
much of the organ restored as possible, and gave a major gift to make that
happened. And in 2008, she called again and
asked me to come see her. I thought that
was odd since I had just gone to see her the week before, but Helen was an
absolute delight to visit, so we set up a time and I went. Helen had a substantial amount of money in an
account where it was not being used. She
considered that to be wasteful and asked what major projects we had going on
that needed funding. When I mentioned
the slate roof, she was delighted. Her
husband was an engineer and loved sound buildings. She would make the lead gift to make that
possible. Helen saw a need, recognized
potential, and had the ability to make something amazing happen. We never asked for a thing, and Helen would
never let us tell the story of her generosity until now.
The question is: “What inspired such love for Christ Church in a
woman who really never attended church here?”
About 90 years ago, when her husband Charles was a young boy
growing up at Christ Church , his
father died. His mother worked hard to
raise Charles, but times were difficult financially and life was a struggle for
them. The people of Christ Church
stepped in and made sure Charles stayed in school and the family had what they
needed. Those folks mentored Charles,
encouraged him, and saw that he had what he needed to finish high school. When Charles finished high school, the
general expectation of family and friends was that Charles would get a job and
support his mother. But the people of Christ Church stepped
in and prevailed. They saw potential in
Charles and made sure he went to college and reached his goal to become an
engineer. When he finished college and
had a job, he and Helen married after having dated for about 8 years, and they
moved from Springfield . Charles’ career as an engineer was long and
quite lucrative.
To her dying breath, Helen was extraordinarily grateful for
what Christ Church has
done for her husband, and thus her family, some 90 years ago. Helen considered her generosity to be simply an
expression of her gratitude to a church that transformed the life and the
potential of one child and that child’s future family. Her deep love for Christ Church was
born of that gratitude. Her generosity
was gratitude in action.
This morning, we hear the story of Jesus and the 10
lepers. How easily we can walk off from
all that God has done for us and not return to give thanks! While the 10th leper’s act of
gratitude may be a little demonstrative for us reserved Episcopalians, obviously
the point is that the healed man understood the magnitude of what had been done
for him and returned to give thanks. The
parallel between the story of the healed man and Helen’s story is clear. Helen also understood the magnitude of the
difference God, through Christ Church , had
made in her husband’s life and in her own, and she acted on that
gratitude.
Gratitude and generosity are both commendable and well worth
imitating as we think about our own offerings to this parish. But I think there is a challenge here that
runs even deeper than the challenge to think about how our own lives reflect
our gratitude for all God has done for us.
Helen’s gratitude in the last decades of her life was for
what this parish had done for her husband 80 or 90 years ago. What are we doing as a parish, both as
individuals within a parish and as a parish as a whole, that 90 years from now
will cause someone to look back with the kind of gratitude Helen had for Christ
Church? How are we working to be a
community of faith that will inspire that kind of gratitude? Obviously no one is around now who was an
adult in the 1920’s influencing a young man to pursue his education and helping
to make that possible. But my hunch is
that there was no vestry resolution to do so, no sermon from the rector, and no
committee or Ministry Team got involved.
My guess is that some folks got together, saw a need and recognized
potential, and made something happen that transformed a life. In the story of the 10 lepers, Jesus saw a
need, had the ability, recognized potential and made something happen,
too. Where do we see need, recognize
potential, and have the ability to make something happen? The reading from Jeremiah reminds us that we
are called to take action now, where we are presently located, in the current
circumstances of our lives, and not wait until our life situation changes to something
more suitable for doing the work of God.
Jesus calls us to see need, recognize potential, and use our abilities
to make amazing things happen now. Our
response to that call will transform both our lives and the lives of
others. Like Christ Church and their
care of a young man, like Helen Myers and her great generosity, our response to
Jesus’ call to see need, to recognize potential, and to be generous with our
abilities is the stewardship of our lives in action.
Amen.
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